Embrace Dirty Talk, Crank Up a Hot Track and More Sex Tips from Celebrity Experts

Want to do sexytime like the rich and famous? Take notes from the 12 unabashedly candid stars below.

Eva Longoria: Learn how to please yourself first.
The actress ^[1] told Self that discovering solo fun turned out to be the key to jumpstarting her sex life. "I didn't begin enjoying sex until I started masturbating," she said.^[2] "Before that, I rea lly wasn't sexual. I bought my first vibrator three years ago. It's a shame I didn't discover it sooner."

Longoria is even slaying her BFF duties by helping her friends upgrade their me time. "Now I give Rabbit vibrators to all my girlfriends," she shared. "They scream when they unwrap it. The best gift I can give them is an orgasm."

Nick Jonas: Put on tunes with good sex tempos (but not your own tunes).
"Every artist's real goal is to have people have sex to your music. I feel like for me, I was inspired by people like Stevie Wonder, Prince and more modern stuff like The Weeknd and James Blake and that vibe. A lot of that is sexy," the singer ^[3] told E! News^[4].

But Jonas isn't about to blast his own music in the boudoir — no matter how perfect it is for the occasion. "That's a no-fly zone! It's so awkward. I've never even tried. I do think about how many people have had sex to my music. And how many babies have been made to 'Jealous.' It's got a good tempo for sex," he explained in Elle^[5].

Khloé Kardashian: It's all about dirty talk.
"I believe in dirty talk. Communicating during sex is a MUST, and I actually think it's rude if you're not vocal," Kardashian ^[6] said in a post on her website and app ^[7]. "If my guy isn't vocal, I'm not excited. How am I supposed to know if he's enjoying himself???"

"I don't even care what you actually say, e ither — to me that's not the important part. You don't have to come up with crazy s--- to say," she added. "It's OK to just get louder if you're enjoying something. I think that's what you should do! It's a sexy way to learn what turns your partner on, especially if you're newly together."

"If I'm with someone who's not vocal during sex, I'll legit say, 'Do you like this?' in the middle of it, haha. If the person is silent, I'm like, 'This is awkward. I feel like I'm violating you!!!'

Zoë Saldana: Get a boost if you're a girl on top.
On an episode of The Conversation with Amanda de Cadenet, the Star Trek star ^[8] shared that she finally found the trick to making a certain position work for a long-legged lady like herself.

"I have to say, for a long time I was a bit lazy so I didn't like to be on top, but I'm really digging it," she said ^[9]. "But I've found things that work … because I have really long legs, you just make them sit or lay on a pillow, or two pillows, that way they're like a little elevated, so I won't be so, like, doing a split because my legs are really long."

Sofia Vergara: Dress the part and keep it romantic.
"No one can be a sex kitten every day, and anyone who tells you that is lying. But I do wear negligees and Japanese silk robes," Vergara ^[10] revealed in Cosmopolitan^[11]. "For a long time, I lived alone with my son and only saw my boyfriends in a hotel. So at home, I slept in old tee shirts. I realized when I moved in with [ex-fiancé] Nick that I couldn't do that. Now, I only keep nice pajamas around, because whatever is there, I'm going to wear."

The actress also opened up to Esquire^[12] about bedroom etiquette: "I guess at the end of the day, all women like to be appreciated and treated with respect and kindness. We all want to have sex in a romantic way."

John Stamos: Listen to her body.
Stamos ^[13] got candid about what makes a good lover for writer Ali Adler's book How to F--- a Woman. "I've had some experiences but it's about listening, asking, talking … Maybe some girls are afraid of communicating," he said ^[14]. "But I find most aren't if you ask, 'Does this feel good?' Or listen to her body like an instrument. I guess I do approach sex in a musical way. With me it's more rhythm than melody with a woman … but it's all listening. When music clicks you can feel it. You have to listen to other musicians. With women, you have to listen to their bodies."

The Fuller House star was also sure to emphasize his selfless-in-bed policy: "I'd rather have a woman have ten orgasms than me have ten orgasms."

Jada Pinkett Smith: Get creative with locations.
The long-married actress ^[15] has the perfect strategy for keeping things exciting in (or rather, out) of the bedroom. "Think of places outside that are comfortable to have sex," she said in Redbook^[16]. "Does he have access to his office? Have a fantasy date. Be his secretary! Be sneaky. Your girlfriend's house at a party. The bathroom! A guest bedroom! Just switch it up. Anything like th at can keep it going. Anything it takes to keep the flame alive."

Heidi Klum: Be upfront about your wild side.
"It's good to make an effort to dress up sometimes – to do things outside of the norm," Klum ^[17] told Marie Claire^[18]. "Some people are more experimental in bed and others are more boring. If you are wild and crazy, bring it on so the other person is well aware that you have little dev il horns that come out every once in a while."

Robin Thicke: Aim high.
While not-so-humble-bragging in Essence^[19], Thicke ^[20] revealed that he had some pretty high standards for pleasing now-ex Paula Patton ^[21]. "I like to try to get her into double-digit orgasms as much as possible," he dished. "It doesn't happen all the time, but when I've got my mojo and my swag, it happens. Every few months it's just like bam — repeated. Repeated! I like her to just be going crazy in the bedroom."

Christina Aguilera: Enjoy the de-stressing power of sex."Sometimes being sexual with my partner is a great way to blow off steam at the end of a hard day's work. I'm not the girl who's going to be too tired," the singer ^[22] told Maxim^[23]. "I think every woman should relax and allow herself to be pleased in the bedroom."

Amy Poehler: Resist the temptations to fake it and know you deserve real pleasure.
In her memoir Yes, Please, Poehler ^[24] urges women to forego the When Harry Met Sally routine and strive for real orgasms, e ven if it means being patient. "Try not to fake it: I know you are tired/nervous/eager to please/unsure of how to get there. Just remember to allow yourself real pleasure and not worry about how long it takes," she wrote ^[25]. "God punished us with the gift of being able to fake it. Show God who the real boss is by getting off and getting yours."

Jamie Bell: Study up on anatomy.
The actor ^[26] thinks mastering oral sex is essential, and he knows a thorough knowledge of the female form is how you achieve A-plus technique. "A man should have a good understanding of a vagina. He should be good at oral sex on a woman," he said in GQ. "A skill a man should have? Making fires and pleasing a woman in the vaginal area."